Tonight as Josh stood in the kitchen, I lumbered in and asked him if he wanted to know how I felt. He said Yes, sure, why not. So, I walked behind him, draped my arms on his shoulders, and let myself hang behind him with dead weight. He started laughing and tried moving away, but I stayed put. See, isn't this fun? I asked him. Now try to imagine chasing a baby around, cooking dinner, doing laundry, AND tossing your cookies!